The attraction was mutual: David said he was instantly drawn to my "striking" eyes!
After a week of communicating, we met up in March 2010 and quickly fell in love.
While a girl could get me to put in more effort by withdrawing a bit, I am ultimately not looking for a relationship and my effort is only going to go so far. I’ve been successfully manipulated into relationships too.
In the end, they’ve failed because I knew in my mind, heart and gut that it wasn’t what I wanted and as much as I tried to numb myself into wanting the relationship, I couldn’t kid myself.
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