We go out to dinner /movies or walks on the beach either friday or saturday and the night ends at his house with sex.
I have not been invited to spend the night in 3 months so I always leave after cuddling for a while.
Hold your ground gracefully and believe in yourself Imagine you were going through a demanding time at work, your days have been super intense and to top it off your mother has been really unwell and you’ve been trying to spend some with her.
Conversely, she ended up with more pressure from him, when all she wanted from him was love and support.
Some women don’t flap as much as they stonewall – they can become passive aggressive and unhealthy “powerplay”, when all he wanted was some self-time. Most of the time women know what they should be doing, yet they do not listen to this knowing, they override it and end up in emotional and relationship poop! As a result you stop taking calls and only respond to a couple of his messages and when you see him you are a little distant because you don’t want to be hassled by him… Tell him to keep up the constant contact and to keep asking her to make time for him? Did he listen to her when she told him what’s going on with her? He didn’t pay attention to her needs, instead he made it about HIM and because of that she started withdrawing. Can you see that to start of she was clear with him and was hoping he’d understand.