The first is the action that is, by its very nature, so closely related to the sexual desires that they serve no other purpose except to stimulate and arouse the persons involved.
It will steer clear from the confusion, the worry, the stress and the mind games that come with not knowing.
If someone isn’t making their intentions clear, odds are they may have different intentions or could be fearful in voicing it. Both involved can get blindsided simply because a lack of upfront communication. If more people said “I don’t date just to date,” I think we’d have fewer confused and tormented hearts.
But you’re out of that marriage now, and you’re wondering whether you should just give up on sex.
It’s your choice, of course, but I vote for stoking your sexual fire, single or partnered.
The same goes for men who desire a godly woman for the intention of marriage.