Who do you know who would not react in a negative, or destructive way?
It is crazy to imagine that will help anything, in any way.
All minds operate in a certain way because of our instincts. But here is the problem; If you want to keep him you should not confront him.
Getting him to confess his sins and change his ways is the wrong approach. We get emails all the time through our free question portal from women who confronted their husbands.
I've been a POZ Personals member for a few years now, and this past December finally met a really special guy. And it wouldn't have happened without your website. Perhaps we would have never crossed paths without this infection.