Arielle Ford shows you how finding your life partner might be just like ordering your favorite coffee drink.
However, you are more likely to find a partner in life by working on improving your attitude toward yourself, love, dating, and relationships.
Resist the temptation to find your soulmate by leaving it to the fates: improve yourself and your dating strategies in order to increase the likelihood of finding your lover.
In the spring of 2007, 500 couples who read O participated in an online survey I developed to explore how happy different personality combinations are together. More than 70 percent said they would marry the same person again—after an average of 16 years together. But what about those of you who haven't yet found real love?
From my studies of genetics and neuroscience I have come to believe that people fall into four broad personality types—each influenced by a different brain chemical: I call them the Explorer, Builder, Director, and Negotiator.
It can happen, of course—and if you selected “UPS driver” as a desired trait in a mate, then your chances of that happening go up exponentially.