Jim Talbott, director of consumer insights at Match.com, also suggests: “Keep your photos fresh, and swap out your primary photo frequently.You look like a new user and people who might have missed you before are more likely to give you a second look.” A final thought from Honey: “Don't be tempted to airbrush your picture or present yourself looking too much better than you do in real life, and give group photos a miss to avoid confusion.” It might feel a little awkward, but dating expert Peter Spalton says it’s a great idea to ask a friend to cast a fresh eye over what you’ve written – and not just to check your spelling.
If you are confused – e Harmony’s Customer Care team is great at helping! If you reach out to someone and never hear back, move onto the next. Many men seem to be at a loss for words – literally – providing some of the shortest responses we have ever seen.
Don’t look back or think about why she never contacted you – because you will never know why. 40 is the new 30 these days, so consider being more flexible about age. Take a little more time to communicate on that profile, and if you are still at a loss, enlist your sister or gal pal to help with some of those important descriptions.
When someone is having issues with getting matches, it is often times because their settings are just too restrictive.
Take another look at them, and consider being more flexible.
He cancels plans, he goes MIA for days at a time, he acts distant.