Or maybe you was just with the wrong person altogether? It’s perfectly fine if you’re not interested in dating anymore due to the added societal pressures and expectations which come along when dating or in a relationship.
My reason for asking these thought-provoking questions is to make a very clear point. Despite being in a loving relationship myself, I can understand exactly why so many men and women have simply, given up.
So when one person decides he/she isn’t interested in pursuing the relationship further, it can be tempting to want to avoid confrontation or hurt feelings.
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They convince themselves it is better to just fade away.
They reason that vanishing without a trace is better than rejecting someone out right…right? By not addressing the situation, you will often succeed at exactly the thing you want to avoid: hurting someone.
Even I have had fleeting thoughts akin to the above during some of the darkest days and shining moments of my life.
And this is precisely why I’m writing this blog post.
No one deserves to be left hanging without explanation. Show your match the same respect you would want if the tables were turned.